Wednesday, October 7, 2015

YOU KNOW YOU BETTER THAN ANYONE DOES!!!!

I feel the need to let you all know that if someone comes up to you in an unsolicited fashion and offers you information that you perceive as troubling in nature, then turns around and walks away......DO NOT give them another thought. That is completely unprofessional and down right mean! Just because SOMEONE happens to see SOMETHING, doesn't mean anything!! Without your input there is no way they would even know how to correctly process what they MAY have seen!
  
  A true message, a true reading isn't like that. Everything we see on TV is not always presented in its entirety. We don't really know what goes on behind the scenes! That said, the messages that we do see passed are loving and comforting, not scary and left open ended!  Do I get information when I am out and about???? NO.  I have rules and boundaries set with spirit. They are not able to just drop info on me whenever they wish! I'm not on 24/7. I need a break!

     Remember the "GOLDEN RULE: Treat others as you want to be treated." It's not hard....THINK before you act. Would you like it if someone came up to you and said or did something like what you are about to?  If you can't say, "Why yes, I think I would like it , very much!" DON'T DO IT! I want to think that the reason some people feel compelled to do this is because they really want to help, and that's great!! Sometimes though, the best way to help someone is to say a simple, "Hello" and smile. If what you notice is really upsetting to you, it's fine to ask if  they are ok...that opens the door, lets them know someone cares and that they can talk to you, if they want too! So, I suggest you go with the Hello, smile and have a marvelous day approach!  Remember the old video tape slogan from the video rental stores, "be kind and rewind!"  Use this as your own motto when dealing with others. Back yourself and your intentions up for a moment. Think this through. Passing a snippet of info to an unsuspecting recipient can do more harm than good, which I know would not be the intent!

     Really, this post was about listening to yourself. Follow your own guidance and do your own soul work. Don't let anyone else tell you where you need to focus. YOU know YOU better than anyone. Please trust yourself,before anyone that is offering well meaning but still, unsolicited advice! You got this thing. Don't let those small little waves knock you out of your boat! Just calm the seas and motor on!

1 comment:

  1. Great Post Sandy! Glad to hear you explain that we cannot nor will not be "on" 24/7. Love this!

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