Wednesday, October 7, 2015

YOU KNOW YOU BETTER THAN ANYONE DOES!!!!

I feel the need to let you all know that if someone comes up to you in an unsolicited fashion and offers you information that you perceive as troubling in nature, then turns around and walks away......DO NOT give them another thought. That is completely unprofessional and down right mean! Just because SOMEONE happens to see SOMETHING, doesn't mean anything!! Without your input there is no way they would even know how to correctly process what they MAY have seen!
  
  A true message, a true reading isn't like that. Everything we see on TV is not always presented in its entirety. We don't really know what goes on behind the scenes! That said, the messages that we do see passed are loving and comforting, not scary and left open ended!  Do I get information when I am out and about???? NO.  I have rules and boundaries set with spirit. They are not able to just drop info on me whenever they wish! I'm not on 24/7. I need a break!

     Remember the "GOLDEN RULE: Treat others as you want to be treated." It's not hard....THINK before you act. Would you like it if someone came up to you and said or did something like what you are about to?  If you can't say, "Why yes, I think I would like it , very much!" DON'T DO IT! I want to think that the reason some people feel compelled to do this is because they really want to help, and that's great!! Sometimes though, the best way to help someone is to say a simple, "Hello" and smile. If what you notice is really upsetting to you, it's fine to ask if  they are ok...that opens the door, lets them know someone cares and that they can talk to you, if they want too! So, I suggest you go with the Hello, smile and have a marvelous day approach!  Remember the old video tape slogan from the video rental stores, "be kind and rewind!"  Use this as your own motto when dealing with others. Back yourself and your intentions up for a moment. Think this through. Passing a snippet of info to an unsuspecting recipient can do more harm than good, which I know would not be the intent!

     Really, this post was about listening to yourself. Follow your own guidance and do your own soul work. Don't let anyone else tell you where you need to focus. YOU know YOU better than anyone. Please trust yourself,before anyone that is offering well meaning but still, unsolicited advice! You got this thing. Don't let those small little waves knock you out of your boat! Just calm the seas and motor on!

Monday, October 5, 2015

WHOA..........CRAZY ENERGY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I'm sure you've heard about all this crazy energy that we are living in right now, haven't you? For some people that's all they can talk about. I have found myself saying things like, "Wow, this is just nuts or Man, can you feel that? " Much to my surprise, most everyone can! That's a great feeling! Everyone is becoming so much more aware. We all have those moments were it feels like we are just suspended in some crazy movie but now those moments are happening ALL.....THE.....TIME! 

     Is this our new normal? I think so! Good or bad we need to learn to deal with things as they happen.  It is not and never was a good idea to sweep things like feelings, emotions, troubles etc.....under a rug, BUT we all did it. Now though, times are changing. If we are refusing to get real and deal, you can bet we are gonna deal with that situation over and over almost immediately! This is a good thing, overwhelming yes, but a good thing! I want to challenge you all, when you are a faced with a situation you would rather not deal with...STOP, STEP BACK and really look at the situation from an "observer" standpoint. This can be difficult if you aren't used to looking at things in this way but you can do it. I know you can. Remove all blame and ask yourself....what did I say or do, what did they say or do. How could this have been done differently? When we react to a situation we react because of what is going on with us, not because what the other person said or did was so gravely inappropriate. We react because of what it reminds us of. It reminds us of how we view our lives or current circumstances. If we can see or realize that we are reacting because of things we want or need to change within ourselves, well....then everything starts to look a little different. I am in no way suggesting this is an easy thing to do. To get real with ourselves and be honest about how judgmental, inappropriate, and frankly, down right nasty we can be, is HARD! It's not something we want to look at and dissect for the meaning! It is however necessary for us to move forward. If we can do that in any given  situation we are much more capable of staying present in the moment and not bringing up and rehashing the past. The past is in the past...leave it there. While it's important to know where you came from, its also important not to repeat those "not so great" steps you've taken. Use them as stepping stones to the new and improved you!  We are all learning and changing daily, start to integrate those changes so that your soul can soar to new heights! We are a SPIRIT having a HUMAN experience. Let your spirit lead and follow its guidance! You will be glad you did!